At the beginning

A long, long time ago, around one of the perfectly decorated tables at my first wedding, sat my best friend, and my husband to be.


At that time we only knew each other as friends, never thought what laid within the future.


As my first marraige was crumbling, the only person that really understood how I felt and the only person that I could really talk to, was Mr. V. And so a friendship became a better, stronger friendship and ended up as my husband today and the father of my children.


So after the 2 of us moved into our first rent housy and started to live within a real relationship we also started with the normal misunderstandings and fights. We both fought a good fight and ended up as a stronger couple today.


Then one day we decided that we wanted children, but we're happy with our lifes the way it were. Therefor, we will stop using any contraception and see where it leads us. 

On a glorious Sunday my parents came for coffee and raised the question about us having kids and not being married. "How can you show commitment to your children, if there's no wedlock commitment between mother and father?" "What will the children's surnames be?" Etc,etc. And they got us thinking.........

On my way to a farmer's market on a sunny Saturday morning, Mr. V came out of the bedroom announcing: "I think you must wear this?" I was OVER the moon. No farmer's market, just celebrations!!!!! Thank goodness, this after the ring has been laying in his cupboard for 8 MONTHS!!!!! I, of course, in secret, tried the ring on every chance I got. I was just to afraid that it wouldn't fit me anymore. But, IT DID!!!

We were getting married!!!!!!!!!!

We got married on 28 February 2009. Small ceremony, with big celebrations. Went to Mauritius for honeymoon. And was working hard on creating a family.

And so our journey started................................